Sometimes I just want to oull my hair out in frustration. What is going on in the world when we can justify our agency's unethical actions just so we can have a child? Are we that selfish? Do the ends justify the means? Ever? Do you think that by bullying another person to keep quiet is going to change reality? One day, the truth WILL come out. Then, what will your answer be on why you chose to stay silent?
I think the challenge is there is the agency..and whatever degree of disorganization, and out and out lies...and then there are the victims...the children without families. I wish there was a way to get all these children moved to another place....so they still had a chance to have families.
ReplyDeleteIt is not selfish to want them...all of them to have families. That is the part that breaks my heart. The families could find a child somewhere else...but would these children be able to find a family? I don't know. That is the part that haunts me. And I think...what if everywhere...adoption was this way...this HARD way....what then? Would we still do it?
I agree no one should bully anyone...and each person must do what they can look God in the face with..... so hard.